Help a New Mom
Tips for how to help a new mom
Not Sure How to Help a New Mom?
Your friend just had a baby and you don’t know what to do for her – well, I’ve got you covered! I put together a comprehensive list of how to help a new mom.
And there are so many things you can do for a new mama and some don’t cost a thing!
New moms need their friends. So, don’t believe them if they say they don’t need help! BUT – it’s important to give them some space, too. Don’t bug them day and night!
The best help I ever got were the friends who would swoop in and do something and never overstay their welcome!
Family Newborn Session
in home newborn session
10 Ideas
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DON’T ask – “How can I help?” Instead, just HELP! Most women don’t like asking for help and often they are so overwhelmed they don’t know how to answer. So just do something!
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Drop off some everyday items she may need – diapers, wipes or ready to eat snacks are a great option!
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Bring her a meal. Something easy to heat up. A friend brought me a pasta spinach bake when I had my second child and it was always my go to with friends! I would add in a loaf of crusty bread and a salad in a bag. Plus I always brought homemade banana bread or muffins for breakfast! Make sure you ask about allergies before dropping something off! Not a chef? Give her an Uber Eats or Door Dash gift card!
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Set-up a time to stop by and help! Pick-up toys, do laundry, empty the dishwasher. She’ll probably say she doesn’t need help – but good friends know better!
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Drop off a spa basket for mom. Bath bombs, cozy slippers, body lotion, oils and a diffuser or a candle. Something just for her!
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If there are older siblings – offer to take the kids for a few hours! Or drop off a bag of activities for them – sticker or coloring books, puzzles, sidewalk chalk – you get the idea!
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A gift certificate for a service. This is something you could go in on with friends! Ideas include a house cleaning service, a facial or massage, or a mani-pedi. And if it’s a service she can’t take the baby to – offer to babysit!
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Basic pantry items. As I mentioned before, ready to eat snacks, canned soups, spaghetti sauce and pasta and snacks for the kids! A fruit basket is always a treat, too!
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Take her for coffee or a walk. Something easy to get her out of the house for a short amount of time. A change of scenery can be uplifting!
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Call her. Text her. And listen. New moms sometimes need to vent or cry. Let her.
Another amazing group gift is a newborn session! I’ve had a number of people give them as shower gifts. And mamas are ALWAYS very appreciative! Recently, I’ve had several dads-to-be purchase a session as a push present. Super sweet!
I’d love to send you some info on my newborn sessions and gift options.
